So moms, what do you do to keep your active toddlers from sitting in front of the TV, or in my case, from playing computer games? (thanks to my techie husband!) If you have a favorite game, activity, project, or internet site where you get resources, let’s start sharing our ideas! Summer is hardly over, and I’m running out of options!
Today, my toddler helped me clean the kitchen and make banana bread. He poured and stirred everything. He also played in the wading pool…for all of about 10 minutes. Sometimes, I think it takes more time to set up an activity than it does for them to play with it! Before you know it, they’re ready to move on! It can be difficult to occupy a toddler for 8-10 hours a day, especially when they don’t take naps! I still insist on 30-minutes of quiet time (in bed laying down) each afternoon. It is a necessary break for me mostly, but every now and then he does fall asleep!
During the day we do things together like play puzzles, read, practice saying our alphabet and counting, and play chase and hide-and-go-seek. We go to parks, and do grocery shopping errands together too. One day, I got really creative and found red beans in my pantry. We put them in a canning jar and shook them making up different rhythms. Then, we took them out and outlined shapes with them, and after that, put counted them in groups. He learned how to point to each one only once and count it and then stop when all were accounted for!
When the newness of that was all over, my son wanted to eat them. I said they were too hard to eat and needed cooking. He definitely wanted to cook them! I said, “Sure, let’s have them for lunch.” When they cooked in the water my son even noticed that the skins on the beans got wrinkly (like his hands after a long time in the bath).
I was so excited he would eat a nutritious lunch that day, but my optimism dropped when he took one look at the now mushy, cooked red beans on his plate and said, “I don’t like them.” I tried to eat my share and didn’t really like them either, so we got something else for lunch too.
My son also likes talking his toys. He gives me a car, or a dinosaur, or a Little People figure, and says, “Here, Mommy, talk them.” I enjoy seeing his imagination develop. I have also found this a great way to teach him things in conversation while we play. Oh, we talk about racing cars and we make scary dinosaur noises, but we also discuss how cars go, and who made the dinosaurs. We talk about the story of creation, and Noah and the Ark. (Then he wants to get all of his animals out!) His language skills are developing fast, and he is learning something each day through play.
It isn’t realistic for me to give him full attention 8-10 hours a day so I rely on him to play by himself for an hour at a time throughout the day, and he gets outdoor play time where I am watching him, but not interacting. Then, when I run out of ideas, he watches children movies and computer games until daddy comes home. So, what else is there to do with your toddlers? Let’s share ideas!
Try familyfun.com and search for ideas by age (for toddlers and up) also huggiesbabynetwork.com for ideas by age up to 36 months. In addition, I do remember that my brother and I loved to “fingerpaint” with pudding on large sheets of construction paper. Many libraries are still having summer reading programs for all ages, and often have a weekly story time by age as well. Have fun!!
- nature walks
-togeather, list of and tour area parks ( till u play at every one)
-homemade ice cream, play dough, bubble solution, GAK, etc. are always fun for a day ( in addition to cooking.)
-Bake decorate & deliver cupcakes to an elderly persons home ( my son’s love this one)
-do you have a bike with a tag-along? Tag along’s are worth every penney they provide hours of fun ( and safe fun!)
- garden hose and bowls, buckets, cups of various sizes (enough said!lol) sprinklers are fun, too : run and jump!
- the $ store Sunday night is a good way to plan for a week coming up when you feel youv’e ‘done it all’, for $10 you can stock up on brand-new never-seen-before coloring books and crayons, army guys, cars, endless art supplies, fun snacks and candy treats. Then surprise them with one or two a day each day till the stash runs out.
- cooking with the sun ( sun tea, u really can fry and egg on a sidewalk, etc.)
- sidewalk chalk scripture verses around the house ( this teaches scripture too, bonus teaching!)
- set up a ‘car wash’ in the bathtub ( bathtub full of 4-5 ‘ water, suds and water mixed up in a squeezie bottle floating on the water, and let them bring in their soak-able toys and wash them off ( my son loved this at 3 and 4 like nobody’s business; he still likes it at 5 sometimes)
- do you have a wagon you can pull him around the neighborhood in ( mine found this to be great fanfare at the toddler stage)
- draw a picture for each relative and mail it to them, you write on what it is and who it’s for and the date ( everone loves these! me included!) and add a recent pic u printed out from the computer or something, if you can.
- pets provide endless hours of observation & feeding fun, and inspire learning about said object of affection. We do tadploes and butterfly’s buth both of their times have passed now, so there’s still hermit crabs and pet-store froggies, geckos and what not. He could even keep him in his room if mom says it’s Ok
- I never underestimate how much good a visit to an elderly person or diabled person ( physically) at home can do, for both the child and the visit-ee. These folks often love kids and will look forward to their visits with them, planning fun things to show them. And they usually have small pets too
For us, this is a great-great aunt and a couple of great women we got to really know better from volunteering at the local old folks home to help do bingo or to chat with the folks sitting outside in the courtroom.
in our experiences so there may be a bird or a cat to get to know
- these are all some things my kids and I have done and enjoyed, but the basics of a scheduled daily quiet time and scheduled daily outside time, scheduled lunch time are irreplaceable in my opinion, the kids know what to expect and this helps resist breakdowns and it hekps you plan your day as Mom. Many people leave out the nap as kids get older or feel a toddler can’t occupy themselves for that long but the quiet-time can’t be substituted in my opinion for a peaceful day, we do an hour: even when they were toddlers they could watch a movie from the library and look through the books they picked out for one hour, and my oldest is 12 and he reads quietly for an hour. Often, they all fall asleep just as you mentioned.
Can u tell Iv’e been home for with my kids almost 4 years now?? Lol!
An email a friend passed on to me has lot’s of the recipes:
Now we all knew about Playdough & Flubber, but Sand? Pretty neat! Just wanted to pass along in case I was the only one that had never heard of it!
Playdough
What you need:
· 3 cups flour
· 3 cups water
· 11/2 cups salt
· 6 tablespoons cooking oil
· 6 teaspoons cream of tartar
· food coloring or liquid water colors
What to do:
· In a pot, mix flour, salt, and cream of tartar.
· Color the water with food coloring or liquid water colors and stir it in along with the cooking oil.
· Over low heat, stir until the dough forms a big ball.
· Dump the playdough onto a heat resistant countertop or cutting board. Allow it to cool for about 10 minutes before kneading.
How to play:
· Children will enjoy playing with the playdough while it’s still warm. It feels good! Set out cookie cutters, craft sticks, and other kitchen utensils for further exploration.
· Add vanilla or peppermint extract before cooking. Smell is our strongest link to memory – and what fun ones you’ll be creating! Also try substituting cake and muffin mixes for some of the flour. Use about half of the cake or muffin mix and 2 cups of flour.
Homemade Sand
What you need:
· 4 cups dried, used coffee grounds
· 2 cups cornmeal
· 1 cup flour
· 1/2 cup salt
What to do:
· Dry the grounds in the sun or in your oven on low heat. Make sure the grounds are extremely dry – otherwise they’ll mold.
· Stir all ingredients together and there you go!
How to play:
Provide funnels, scoops, and wooden spoons for hours of mixing, stirring, and pouring fun. Empty bowls or small containers are great for dumping and filling.
Flubber
What you need:
· 11/2 cups glue
· 4 tablespoons Borax (laundry detergent aisle)
· 4 cups water
What to do:
· Mix 2 cups of water and the glue in a bowl.
· In a separate bowl, mix together 2 cups water and the Borax.
· After it’s dissolved, pour the Borax mixture a little at a time into the glue mixture and stir. You might not need all of the Borax mixture.
How to play:
· Squish it, poke it, or try sticking a bit of it at the end of a straw and blowing a bubble.
· Watch it ooze through your fingers.
· Hang a berry basket in your doorway and place some flubber inside. Watch it ssttrreeeettcch through the holes in the basket.
Note: Vinegar will take flubber out of clothes. Mayonnaise will take it out of hair.
Hope these ideas serve you all !
Love in Christ, Stacey
Jamie,
If you’re just looking for things to do…
One thing that I’ve found helpful is to invite a few children over for some activity. Somehow two or three kids together seems to make any activity go a little further. If you’re concerned about kids tearing up your house… then meet at a park and lunch or have something planned for outside.
You also might see if your library has a story day. That can get you out of the house and with other children, too. If you don’t like the quality of the books or the reader, you can always volunteer to read if there’s ever a need.
If you’re looking for independent things for you little guy to do, that’s a little harder at this age! For some reason, everything is more fun with mom.
He’s probably at an age where he can entertain himself well with blocks and LEGOS. David didn’t really get excited about legos until we got a few simple sets. Once he put a few together with us (he needed step by step help), he started putting together his own creations. That’s now what he does during naptime most days.
Last year my little ones had loads of fun outside on our porch with a big bowl of ice and some smaller scoops. Actually, anything with water is fun. Bethel right now likes to help me wash dishes. I just fill the sink up a bit, and let her wash plastic dishes and silverware. Yes, she gets water everywhere and doesn’t understand the concept of squeezing water out of the rag before swinging it around her, but a few towels under her that need to be washed anyway keep it from getting out of hand. I also made her a smaller rag that doesn’t hold as much water. Sometimes I can clean the whole kitchen while she plays at the sink.
Paint is always exciting, if you don’t mind messes. I have my kids put on painting clothes, and put a plastic table cloth on the table. I’ve got a plastic palette with little wells for mixing colors, and my kids love it. My two year old is still at the “mix everything to get a beautiful brown” stage, and she does get paint all over her, but she does enjoy it. I can micromanage this activity, but I’ve found they enjoy it more if I keep out of the way, or help them clean their brushes when they need them cleaned.
Less mess are lacing cards, or real sewing. Get a piece of felt and some bright colored thread, and let him sew away. I bet he could sew on a button, even.
You might consider investing in a sandbox. Some kids will sit out for a long time driving trucks around and making waterways in the sand.
I get the catalog at lakeshorelearning.com. You can get lots of ideas for activities from this catalog (also fun things to buy).
Love the ideas! Thanks! I’ll revisit these comments many times over the rest of this summer!